RetireeRobert
Thinks s/he gets paid by the post
If I wait until I die for my kids to get everything, that will be their first big chance with a large wad of money. ...............
So I'm leaning towards giving progressively larger chunks. That way they get practice with smaller amounts before a probably large chunk at inheritance time. And I can be there to help them.......
Shrewd advice.
I am doing something similar with my three kids. They got their first bigger chunks when my DW passed. We had her (and my) IRAs set up so the kids would be the primary beneficiaries for the tIRAs. Since Oregon is a high estate tax state (if not "the" highest for estate tax), that move saved an eventual bundle from going into state coffers. Instead the kids get $1 for every dollar in the tIRA. And I am still here to help them with things like RMD's from inherited IRAs (Pre 1/1/2020).
Fortunately, my son seems to have inherited the "money handling" gene from me, and he is and will be a big help to his sisters.