Hi Aida! I just passed the one year anniversary of my retirement and find I am busier now than when I was working!
I waited to retire until my sons graduated from college and had established their careers, and as I was waiting for this to happen, I did make plans as to what I wanted to do. Two main goals was helping my youngest son build his home and spending more time with my 82 yr old mother.
My son had always wanted to build his home with his dad and grandfather. Unfortunately they couldn't be there but I knew I could. It was the best experience of my life and I believe they were watching over us as we tackled this project (probably shaking their heads and laughing at us!) but we did it!
My mom is a healthy, active 82 yrs young and I want to spend this time with her. She has more places she wants to visit and I plan to share these experiences with her. Another decision I will never regret!
Yes, my DH had some great benefits that we always planned to enjoy together. Unfortunately life happens as we are making plans. Never waste one day of this beautiful life!
Thanks for the input!