troutnut1
Recycles dryer sheets
It seems to me your interest is in negotiating and we are pretty much all suggesting termination. I negotiated for a while too. It didn’t work. But when I figured out in dollars and cents what this friend was costing me per month and year the solution became clear.
I’d been fired once before by a man I considered “wise”. He said “If you’re ever forced to cut off a dog’s tail just cut it in one clean and fast cut. Cutting it off an inch at a time is cruel. And I don’t want to do that to you. So you’re fired.” In hindsight it was a good thing for both of us. And I certainly had it coming.
So that is what I did with my FA. I said “Before we even start talking about this, I want to let you know you are being terminated. Your services, knowledge, and experience have been appreciated, but far exceed my simple needs. Nothing you can say will change my mind about this.”
Most of us have been where you are and have later come to self manage our funds. It is hard ending a long term relationship. The only good I see coming out of this kind of relationship is for those who panic easily and would sell everything every time the market tanks. If having the FA as a buffer to protect against that he may earn his fees that way.
I’d been fired once before by a man I considered “wise”. He said “If you’re ever forced to cut off a dog’s tail just cut it in one clean and fast cut. Cutting it off an inch at a time is cruel. And I don’t want to do that to you. So you’re fired.” In hindsight it was a good thing for both of us. And I certainly had it coming.
So that is what I did with my FA. I said “Before we even start talking about this, I want to let you know you are being terminated. Your services, knowledge, and experience have been appreciated, but far exceed my simple needs. Nothing you can say will change my mind about this.”
Most of us have been where you are and have later come to self manage our funds. It is hard ending a long term relationship. The only good I see coming out of this kind of relationship is for those who panic easily and would sell everything every time the market tanks. If having the FA as a buffer to protect against that he may earn his fees that way.