Hamlet - my kids are typical professionals who change locations about every 5 yrs. One daughter lives in L.A. and the other (with the grandkids) live in Minneapolis. Two years ago they lived in NY,NY and Indianapolis respectively.
My only experience living in Texas was 6 weeks in March/April - I know, the best time to be in Texas. However, we lived in Biloxi, Ms for 4 years which has similar hot, humid weather like Texas.
Death taxes are very significant in states like Mn and is the primary reason for our desire to eventually leave the state. If we died today - Mn would take $650,000 of AT dollars from our estate. If we live into our 80's that number could easily increase to over $1.5MM. Establishing our permanent residence in a no income tax, no estate tax state would save that money for our daughters.