Have been there in the past, but I consider paying higher taxes as cheap rent for the privilege of living in the US of A!
One thing to consider is making after-tax contributions to your 401k if your plan allows it. While it doesn't help you with taxes currently, under current rules you can roll after-tax 401k balances into a Roth IRA (either in-service if your plan allows in-service rollovers or after you sever service).
However, be aware that the recent Obama budget is proposing to close down this loophole.