First, let me thank all of you who participated in the conversation.
MIL has finally signed her annuity contracts. After looking more carefully at reverse mortgages and receiving several quotes, she decided to go with a HECM reverse mortgage from Wells Fargo (lowest fees/costs we could find).
Her monthly income will look something like:
$1,000 from SS (CPI-adjusted)
$435 from a Vanguard Lifetime Annuity Program SPIA (CPI-adjusted)
$611 from a Penn Mutual SPIA (no COLA)
$636 from Wells Fargo reverse mortgage (no COLA) - Just based on what we (and the county) think her house is worth. Waiting for an appraisal for the final number.
Total: $2,682 monthly. Her expenses stand roughly at $2,500 per month right now (all included).
It also leaves her about $30K liquid for emergencies. The interests and dividends from that money could give her a small annual bonus.
The whole process has, I think, jolted her into reality. She has (finally!) decided to voluntarily reduce her expenses. She is ditching her expensive cell phone plan and going with a pre-paid T-mobile plan. The cleaning lady was let go. She will be shopping for a cheaper Medicare supplemental plan in the fall. Things are looking up!