SoReadyToRetire
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Hi everyone! I read about how to introduce myself and what to prepare before I ask "can I retire yet", but I'm still eager to jump in and get started.
I turned 60 a week ago. My husband is 57. We're both in reasonably good health, although he has Crohn's (in remission/on medication) and l'm starting to have memory issues (have a memory clinic coming up in the Fall).
For that reason, I'm feeling like we may want to retire while we're still in good enough health to travel a little and enjoy ourselves in general--and I don't think I can last longer than 2 more years at my stressful programming job.
Here's what I keep coming back to when I think about whether we're ready: We have over 7X what my mom had put away when my dad died 7 years ago--and she's doing ok. She doesn't live extravagantly by any means, but she's 85 and likes to stay home a lot. But the fact that she's living on a SS income of about $50/month after Medicare costs, and still has over $80K in the bank (started with $103K) makes me think we might be able to retire now and be ok. I don't know if we're crazy to be considering retiring in 2 years or even less.
We have no debt (paid off our mortgage years ago); have always worked full-time; have no children together (hubby has 2 adult children); and live below our means (although I have a tendency to give a lot of money/things to others, which I could curb if I had to, though it'd be difficult ). We live in VT and want to move to a warmer place with lower property & income taxes after we retire.
We currently have $725K in stock-heavy mutual funds in our 401Ks (and know the market could plunge overnight, affecting that total drastically), plus our home that's worth about $225K. Property taxes are $4400/year. We own 5 vehicles outright, all over 10 years old. We have about $75K liquid at the moment. Neither of us have LTC insurance, and we don't care about leaving anything much to family (outside the life insurance we bought for that purpose). We've been on one vacation a year for the past few years, costing around $4-5K, and would probably want to continue doing that for the next 5 years, tops. Other than that, we could continue to live on ~$2400/month just as we do now. If I can make it until 68 to start taking SS, I'll get $2200/month; hubby will get $1800. I'd like to eliminate that from our equation entirely, so we can think of it more as a "cushion" for our later years.
I haven't run FireCalc yet (just learned about it in this forum today!), but most of the calculators I put the basics into tell me we need something like $2M to retire. That's so discouraging!!!
I keep comparing our situation to my mom's and thinking that since we have a lot more put away than she did, and don't live an extravagant lifestyle, maybe we CAN think about retiring while we're still fairly healthy in mind and body. The sooner the better! I really don't want to work up until I literally lose my mind.
It's very hard to know what health issues you'll have in the future--and whether you'll need long term care--so how do people know when they have "enough"?
I'm off to try to find FireCalc now. But please chew on what I've written for now, and feel free to comment. Thank you--and I'm so happy to have found this forum! Looking forward to learning and chatting more.
I turned 60 a week ago. My husband is 57. We're both in reasonably good health, although he has Crohn's (in remission/on medication) and l'm starting to have memory issues (have a memory clinic coming up in the Fall).
For that reason, I'm feeling like we may want to retire while we're still in good enough health to travel a little and enjoy ourselves in general--and I don't think I can last longer than 2 more years at my stressful programming job.
Here's what I keep coming back to when I think about whether we're ready: We have over 7X what my mom had put away when my dad died 7 years ago--and she's doing ok. She doesn't live extravagantly by any means, but she's 85 and likes to stay home a lot. But the fact that she's living on a SS income of about $50/month after Medicare costs, and still has over $80K in the bank (started with $103K) makes me think we might be able to retire now and be ok. I don't know if we're crazy to be considering retiring in 2 years or even less.
We have no debt (paid off our mortgage years ago); have always worked full-time; have no children together (hubby has 2 adult children); and live below our means (although I have a tendency to give a lot of money/things to others, which I could curb if I had to, though it'd be difficult ). We live in VT and want to move to a warmer place with lower property & income taxes after we retire.
We currently have $725K in stock-heavy mutual funds in our 401Ks (and know the market could plunge overnight, affecting that total drastically), plus our home that's worth about $225K. Property taxes are $4400/year. We own 5 vehicles outright, all over 10 years old. We have about $75K liquid at the moment. Neither of us have LTC insurance, and we don't care about leaving anything much to family (outside the life insurance we bought for that purpose). We've been on one vacation a year for the past few years, costing around $4-5K, and would probably want to continue doing that for the next 5 years, tops. Other than that, we could continue to live on ~$2400/month just as we do now. If I can make it until 68 to start taking SS, I'll get $2200/month; hubby will get $1800. I'd like to eliminate that from our equation entirely, so we can think of it more as a "cushion" for our later years.
I haven't run FireCalc yet (just learned about it in this forum today!), but most of the calculators I put the basics into tell me we need something like $2M to retire. That's so discouraging!!!
I keep comparing our situation to my mom's and thinking that since we have a lot more put away than she did, and don't live an extravagant lifestyle, maybe we CAN think about retiring while we're still fairly healthy in mind and body. The sooner the better! I really don't want to work up until I literally lose my mind.
It's very hard to know what health issues you'll have in the future--and whether you'll need long term care--so how do people know when they have "enough"?
I'm off to try to find FireCalc now. But please chew on what I've written for now, and feel free to comment. Thank you--and I'm so happy to have found this forum! Looking forward to learning and chatting more.
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