The issues aren't limited to HOAs, single family dwellings are having the same problems. There is a grief trade off- dealing with them as an individual, or with a committee.
We have just made an offer on a unit in a building built in 1959 of concrete & steel. Dated, yes, but solid as a rock. Another friend of mine just purchased a condo in a wood frame structure built in the 80s. Good, solid, building.
There are several reasons why we like seasoned buildings, one important one is that construction defects have been discovered. Life-style wise we don't like open floor plans that are in fashion today.
Most strong condo associations severely limit renters but if you can rent in a building you might buy in it is a great 'try before you buy' approach.