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Benjamain, I sympathize with your situation and wish you the best. You should also seek professional advice so that you can consider all of your options during and post BK. Having said that, I would urge you to reconsider defaulting on the 401(k) loan. You should confirm this but I think doing so may cause it to be treated as a distribution from your 401(k), resulting in taxable income and a 10% penalty even if it is considered a hardship withdrawal.
In addition, you need to think of your financial stability first, so paying your 401(k) loan will increase your protected assets. This is likely an unpopular view, but I don't think there is a moral obligation to pay everything so that you are destitute. In the business world, BK and debt forgiveness are merely strategic options, although I don't condone the pension raiding that was used so often in the 80s. Personal loans to friends and family I think you should honor since they extended such loans when no one else presumably would. Good luck.
The defaulted loan WOULD be considered a distribution that would create the 10% penalty.... if you need more cash flow, I would suggest refinancing them and extend what you owe to 5 years.... I would not suggest default....