Based on a typical two (or more) person household, I wonder how cooking chores are split up among members here.
I enjoy cooking, but DW doesn't, so I do nearly all the cooking. OTOH, she is an extremely talented baker while I'm barely competent in that area with the exception of my artisan bread, so she does just about all the baking.
That depended on our stage in life.
- When we were first married, we both cooked. I tended to get home from work before my wife, so during the week I cooked most of the dinners.
- When we had kids, my wife stayed home. She did most of the cooking during the week. I tended to cook on weekends.
- Later on, my wife went back to work but was home before me. She did more of the cooking.
- Still later on, I retired a few years before my wife did. I did almost all the cooking (and shopping and cleaning).
- Now that we are both retired, we split it fairly equally.
While I enjoy cooking, my wife is better at it. So when we want something fancy, she'll cook it. And I dislike baking, while my wife enjoys it. So she does pretty much all the baking. I do all the grilling. I am better at sauces and soups. Sometimes, we'll cook together - I'll do the prep, she'll do the assembly, seasoning, and gauging doneness. It can be fun, but I tend to work from a plan, where she wings it - so we can get in each others way on occasion.
And our rule has pretty much always been - when one cooks, the other cleans.
Through our life together, we have always split up all the chores. Some she enjoys or is really good at. Others I enjoy or am good at. Early in our life together, she paid all the bills. Later, she decided she didn't want to do it any longer and I've done all the bills and finances since. She enjoyed shopping. I enjoyed yard work. Etc, etc.
For us, life is about doing what you enjoy, are good at, or have time for, then having your spouse do what they enjoy, are good at, or have time for. We find a way to split up everything else. It works.
BTW, neither of us wear an apron. I tuck a white dish cloth in my waistband and use it as needed. It's a habit from my days when I was an owner of my family's fast food shop.