Brook2
Recycles dryer sheets
I retired at 47 but am now 62. It's the result of starting a business and working hard.
I don't feel 'old'. I take martial arts classes and my vehicle is a bike. But no matter what age I was - there still is a feeling that the whole world disappears in the day and then they come home from work and collapse.
Because friends are still working, they have limited free time. People who 'are' free in the day usually are from a different generation and playing bingo at the senior center. People who decided to raise children (even after they move away) seem still seem overwhelmed by parenting issues (their kids need a lot, even as adults). I'm curious how other people have explored new relationships. I'm actually surprised at how many of my friendships were a result of working with people.
Your experience?
btw - I'm not complaining about my life -I'm just noticing what goes on around me. I would never trade my ER for working again. Having a lot of free time is an amazing privilege and gift. Just am always exploring what it means to have community when you are the only retired person you know (at your age).
I don't feel 'old'. I take martial arts classes and my vehicle is a bike. But no matter what age I was - there still is a feeling that the whole world disappears in the day and then they come home from work and collapse.
Because friends are still working, they have limited free time. People who 'are' free in the day usually are from a different generation and playing bingo at the senior center. People who decided to raise children (even after they move away) seem still seem overwhelmed by parenting issues (their kids need a lot, even as adults). I'm curious how other people have explored new relationships. I'm actually surprised at how many of my friendships were a result of working with people.
Your experience?
btw - I'm not complaining about my life -I'm just noticing what goes on around me. I would never trade my ER for working again. Having a lot of free time is an amazing privilege and gift. Just am always exploring what it means to have community when you are the only retired person you know (at your age).
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