Lived in Texas for most of my life. Own property here. It is cheaper to live here than in other places (like Washington state, which we have lived in for five years and also has no state income tax), especially if you are cost conscious.
A couple of things:
Sales tax: 8.6% where I'm at (city, county, state). Not a big deal if you are frugal like most of us on this board are. If I'm planning on buying something, I comparision shop online and can usually find it and get it cheaper than buying it locally and having to pay the sales tax. I don't know about other states, but most food is tax free, plus there are sales tax holidays in August, before school starts, that give you the opportunity to buy clothes tax free. This helps out and we use it to our advantage with three kids and the both of us.
Property taxes: $2.06 per one hundred dollars of property value per my 2009 annual statement. Around $1800 per year for us for a large home on 25 acres in a rural area. At some point, when the kids are grown, we'll move to something smaller and this will go down. It's not that big of deal now, since our home is paid for and we are both working.
The only real tax downside for the ER is that of property taxes. However, that is something that you can control on some level with your choice of housing. For example, $50,000 to $60,000 buys a 3 bdrm 2 bath in a rural area or small town. For $100,000 to $150,000 you can get a nice home in a bigger city. Or just rent for $500 to $800 per month and forget about the property taxes.
There is no state income tax and other taxes and fees are pretty cheap.
Auto inspection: Around $13 per year per vehicle
Auto registration: Less than $130 per year for two vehicles (1997 and 2008).
Eladio