SteveR
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Congratulations on your anniversary. I just realized mine was a couple of days ago May 18. I ERed in 2008 and we moved shortly thereafter to get out of the snow and cold. We still get some snow here and there but it melts in a day or less. I don't even own a snow shovel anymore (it was decommissioned with ceremony and a hack saw.
My son in law is moving to Denver soon as I am sure we will be getting over there to see them after they settle in. Being in the West is good as long as you don't go over the border into Kaliforniastan. Very strange goings on over there...we avoid it as much as we can (which is hard with DW's large family all still behind the Redwood Curtain.)
We took quite a hit on our investments during these past years as well. We also took a gamble and bought into a local store that was struggling and have been building it up over the past year of so. So our finances have been pretty stretched to say the least. I still have a son in school who we help out from time to time and there is my mother and DW's folks that we help from time to time too. We have cut back on many things but don't have time to miss them with the store taking a lot of our time and tallents. It it makes it that will be great but the key if for DW to enjoy the experience while she can. Lost one wife 7 months into her ER so that is a priority for me.
That past 3 years have been rough on everyone and it was a wake up call to many who thought the gravy train would never derail. Well it did and it took out many other sacred cows along the way like housing, bonds, jobs, and other things. We have managed through so far with spending controls and cost avoidance (don't buy it if you can rent it or borrow it).
Things are starting to turn the corner in our investments and we are about even from 2007. It have been a FireCalc scenario that one never thought would really happen...too far off the trend line to be real....we now a a new reality and a better appreciation for all of the FireCalc calculation events...none are out of the question. How you deal with it is the key.
So, at 5 years of ER do we get a tie tack or something from the catalog to celebrate our first major milestone? Oh wait,...that was in a former life.
My son in law is moving to Denver soon as I am sure we will be getting over there to see them after they settle in. Being in the West is good as long as you don't go over the border into Kaliforniastan. Very strange goings on over there...we avoid it as much as we can (which is hard with DW's large family all still behind the Redwood Curtain.)
We took quite a hit on our investments during these past years as well. We also took a gamble and bought into a local store that was struggling and have been building it up over the past year of so. So our finances have been pretty stretched to say the least. I still have a son in school who we help out from time to time and there is my mother and DW's folks that we help from time to time too. We have cut back on many things but don't have time to miss them with the store taking a lot of our time and tallents. It it makes it that will be great but the key if for DW to enjoy the experience while she can. Lost one wife 7 months into her ER so that is a priority for me.
That past 3 years have been rough on everyone and it was a wake up call to many who thought the gravy train would never derail. Well it did and it took out many other sacred cows along the way like housing, bonds, jobs, and other things. We have managed through so far with spending controls and cost avoidance (don't buy it if you can rent it or borrow it).
Things are starting to turn the corner in our investments and we are about even from 2007. It have been a FireCalc scenario that one never thought would really happen...too far off the trend line to be real....we now a a new reality and a better appreciation for all of the FireCalc calculation events...none are out of the question. How you deal with it is the key.
So, at 5 years of ER do we get a tie tack or something from the catalog to celebrate our first major milestone? Oh wait,...that was in a former life.