Fundwise perhaps he'd be more comfortable with Vanguards Wellington fund. Its an actively managed balanced fund (60% stock, 40% bond) with an attractive price (under .25% for investments over 250k). Its performance is comparable to many of the balanced index funds at a comparable cost, but that someones "hand is on the wheel" may be more palatable to the hubby. I'm well ensconced in this funds sibling, the Wellesley fund.
Another option via vanguard is their STAR fund. This is a fund of funds, all actively managed. It owns stock, bond, mortgage debt, foreign, small caps, etc. One buy gets you a fairly diversified managed portfolio with a reasonable cost.
If you arent excited about vanguard, Dodge and Cox's actively managed Stock and Balanced funds outperform most of their peers and have done better than most indexes for a reasonable price (about .5%). Oakmarks balanced fund is also a decent choice but the management fee exceeds 1% and I dont see anything in it that would make me want to pay that.
That having been said, over long periods of time not many active managers beat indexes, especially when the costs are factored in. But there is some truth in that an index has no conscience, it just follows the path. However, very few "hands on the wheel" funds do any better. The ones I mentioned are competitive with or superior in returns over most periods, and dont charge too much.