twobits
Dryer sheet wannabe
- Joined
- Feb 6, 2018
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- 15
Hi, we've been following the forum here for awhile, learning a lot, making plans. Self-employed as a consultant, my spouse has gradually decreased the number of clients he works with, getting used to less income, more free time. He is currently working part time and thinks he's mentally ready to be retired, but now the problem for him is numbers.
We hit his financial goal December 2021, but he wanted OMY just to make sure, and then the market downturn happened. The numbers still work for us, but he has that previous amount in his head and wants to get back to it. I've shown him the successful firecalc results in different scenarios and our portfolio balances with enough cash to weather a downturn, so he knows we're fine, but he still wants that added financial cushion for reassurance.
I figure on the scale of pros and cons, the pros of retirement (freedom) will eventually outweigh the cons of working (client headaches and hassles) and he'll get comfortable with the numbers we have, because I think it will be awhile before we hit the December 2021 numbers again.
I'm technically his partner in the business, but I just take care of the bookkeeping and miscellaneous other tasks. It doesn't take much time for me, but he has a hard time being away from the phone/computer while we do leisure activities. His worry that emails/voicemails are waiting for him to take care of sometimes prevents him from enjoying the free time he has and I'd love to see him let it all go and just enjoy himself.
A little more about us...I'm 55, he'll be 57 in a few months. Our children are grown and out of the house, fully independent. Our only debt is our mortgage, with a less than 3% interest rate. No health issues at this time. There shouldn't be anything holding us back.
So, this is mostly just an intro, but if anyone has any advice I can share with him about taking that plunge, I'd appreciate it! Otherwise, I'll just be patient and wait for him to decide he's ready
We hit his financial goal December 2021, but he wanted OMY just to make sure, and then the market downturn happened. The numbers still work for us, but he has that previous amount in his head and wants to get back to it. I've shown him the successful firecalc results in different scenarios and our portfolio balances with enough cash to weather a downturn, so he knows we're fine, but he still wants that added financial cushion for reassurance.
I figure on the scale of pros and cons, the pros of retirement (freedom) will eventually outweigh the cons of working (client headaches and hassles) and he'll get comfortable with the numbers we have, because I think it will be awhile before we hit the December 2021 numbers again.
I'm technically his partner in the business, but I just take care of the bookkeeping and miscellaneous other tasks. It doesn't take much time for me, but he has a hard time being away from the phone/computer while we do leisure activities. His worry that emails/voicemails are waiting for him to take care of sometimes prevents him from enjoying the free time he has and I'd love to see him let it all go and just enjoy himself.
A little more about us...I'm 55, he'll be 57 in a few months. Our children are grown and out of the house, fully independent. Our only debt is our mortgage, with a less than 3% interest rate. No health issues at this time. There shouldn't be anything holding us back.
So, this is mostly just an intro, but if anyone has any advice I can share with him about taking that plunge, I'd appreciate it! Otherwise, I'll just be patient and wait for him to decide he's ready