My favorite bene story was a client who inherited about $450k in an IRA. She and her husband made about $350k per year (he was a salesman for her family's paper company, she had S-Corp shares in the company). We worked out a plan for her to stretch the IRA out over her lifetime (she was in her 30s). I helped her get the investment account established with a friend of mine (no fees to me, and due to my relationship with the broker, she was at the lowest tier of fees).
I started getting calls from the broker about a month after the account was established. She took out $30k. A call to her and she says she needs a new car because hers was almost 3 years old and had 30k miles on it
. A week later, she needs about $10k to lease a new car for her husband (he can't be driving around a 2 year old car and appear successful to his clients!). Another month goes by and she has taken out $30k for a kitchen remodel (this was 25 years ago, so a decent remodel in a modest house).
When I did their taxes, I informed them that the tax bill on the IRA withdrawals was about $30k, and they would need to up their estimated tax payments. Another hit to the IRA. At this point, I recalculated the withdrawals for a 5 year payout, and explained that there would be some taxes due, but in the long run it would match their spending pattern. Fast forward a year, and I asked the broker for the 1099 for the now taxable account and the IRA. He said the IRA was closed, and the taxable was down to $120k. It seems that her DH had to have a new leased BMW every year (latest model with all of the upgrades, because money was no problem!), and she wanted to have more exciting travel options. In the end, all of the IRA $$ was gone in 3 1/2 years, and "it was my fault for making them pay taxes"
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Side note, the husband also inherited some money, all after tax. I talked to the broker about 10 years later, and he hadn't touched his money and it was about 2 1/2 times what he inherited and he was planning on using it to supplement his retirement!