Why don't lawyers retire early?

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I'm a 63 year old lawyer who has been in private practice my whole life. We're not rich, but we have plenty of money to live a reasonably decent life and we have no debt. I'm leaving the work force on April 1, 2013.

All the lawyers I know seem amazed. "What are you going to do?" "You'll be bored". "You'll miss the intellectual challenge." Etc., etc.

Looking around my community, there are lots of lawyers who are anywhere from 1 or 2 years older than me to 20 years older than me, still working. I ask myself why? Surely, most of them have enough money to get by, but maybe not.

Lawyers who work for the government or big corporations retire, but it doesn't seem many in private practice do.

I wonder why?
 
Because you can work until you're dead, and make the big bucks, while scre*ing over the little folks?

(Just a comment from one who has been working with elder law/estate lawyers, for more than a few years, on behalf of my disabled son).

You may like my answer, but you asked the question. I answered it based upon my experience, over many years...
 
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Lawyers who work for the government or big corporations retire, but it doesn't seem many in private practice do.
Because they're in control of their life and their hours, and they see no reason to change?

If you enjoy what you do then you tend to keep doing it until you find something else that you enjoy even more.

There's a certain sector of society (usually guys) who keep the office and the routine because they enjoy it, because it treats them well, and because it provides a buffer/lubricant over having to spend time at home. Frequently their spouses prefer it that way too.
 
My 2 cents: To persevere in our profession into one's fifties and beyond takes a certain mindset and drive. Many/most of the people who have that mindset and drive see the job as being the same as life and can't conceive of themselves in any other way.

(I'm in private litig. practice and looking to be out no later than 56-57, but two of my partners will likely never quit.)
 
Because they're in control of their life and their hours, and they see no reason to change?

If you enjoy what you do then you tend to keep doing it until you find something else that you enjoy even more.

There's a certain sector of society (usually guys) who keep the office and the routine because they enjoy it, because it treats them well, and because it provides a buffer/lubricant over having to spend time at home. Frequently their spouses prefer it that way too.


Exactly. I am thinking of a lawyer that I knew who kept going to the office, which he shared with younger partners, until he died at age 82. He really didn't take on cases any more. He was just available to his partners to discuss their own cases in light of his own vast experience as a lawyer. To be valued for one's expertise, without actually having to do any work, doesn't sound so bad to me.

He also enjoyed having a reason to get out of the house every day, having lunch with his partners/friends, and using his office to do various real estate or business deals, almost as a hobby.

Now that he is gone, his number one partner is getting up there in years and he is still working. In his case, it is because he genuinely needs the money due to almost compulsive over-spending by both him and his wife. At any rate, the last time I saw him he looked really tired, and I felt sorry for him.
 
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My wife was an equity partner in a big firm and retired at 58. But, as you say, she was a rarity. A lot of lawyers have their identity tied up with work more so than some others. Same seems true of doctors.
 
To be valued for one's expertise, without actually having to do any work, doesn't sound so bad to me.
Hey, we do that here on this discussion board every day!!
 
I'm a 63 year old lawyer who has been in private practice my whole life. We're not rich, but we have plenty of money to live a reasonably decent life and we have no debt. I'm leaving the work force on April 1, 2013.

All the lawyers I know seem amazed. "What are you going to do?" "You'll be bored". "You'll miss the intellectual challenge." Etc., etc.

Looking around my community, there are lots of lawyers who are anywhere from 1 or 2 years older than me to 20 years older than me, still working. I ask myself why? Surely, most of them have enough money to get by, but maybe not.

Lawyers who work for the government or big corporations retire, but it doesn't seem many in private practice do.

I wonder why?

Because they'll be bored or miss the intellectual challenge? I think that's what they're trying to tell you.
 
I worked in a government agency that employed lots of lawyers. Many of them retired when they could or at a typical age such as 65. Can't think of any that worked into their 70s or beyond.

I don't know why lawyers in private practice tend to work longer. I would venture to guess they have more of a commitment to a business they helped build or relationships with clients that have spanned many years.

Good for you for not going along with the herd and doing what feels right to you.
 
But I don't get bored on weekends or on vacations! Seriously, I've heard the phrase "golden handcuffs" which is what somebody said here--people tend to make a lot of money and still manage to spend it all, so they can't quit. Or maybe it is the identity thing-"Hi, my name is John, I'm a lawyer". Or they just haven't had enough time to figure out what they might like to do. It's likely a combination of things.

5 1/2 years ago, I had an asymptomatic congentitally deformed aortic valve that was being followed. It got smaller and smaller, but still no symptoms and I was (and am) very active. Then a doctor determined it had caused an aneurysm in my ascending aorta. Then a friend, one of the healthiest guys I knew, a year younger than me, died mysteriously from an undisclosed heart issue. The doc I went to said it was probably something similar to my valve/aneurysm.

That decided it for me. I got the value replaced, got the aneurysm fixed and made up my mind I was not going to die at my desk or in a courtroom. Life is too short and there are too many things to do and to enjoy. I quit working as long hours as I used to and my wife and I planned our escape from the daily work world. We got rid of all our debt, cut our expenses while still living pretty well and decided it's time. Frankly, if I worked forever and saved an extra million dollars but died without doing some of those things, I don't think my widow or kids would be all that impressed by the extra work years.

The early retirees on this board seem to get it pretty well. But I still wonder why more lawyers don't get it? Or maybe I don't get it, who knows? I just know you guys sound a lot happier than my colleagues who are worried about billing a minimum of 8 hours tomorrow. And the next day. And the day after. And....forever.

Counting down the days until April 1!
 
Just for you. My personal favorite song on the subject of retirement. Funny thing is, Mick and the gang sure didn't retire early. Well, guess I wouldn't either if I was doing a job that's pretty much a party!

Perhaps you can play this on your last day :)

I'm Free x Rolling Stones - YouTube
 
When DW's Dad died, DW and brother went to the "family lawyer since forever" to sort out probate (DW's Mom was incapable). That was in October 2011. By July 2011, when DW's Mom also died, nothing had moved, but we got a bill anyway. The new law firm that DW and brother hired to sort out what was now a double-probate job advised them to pay that bill, to avoid possible holdups in probate. DW has since met the "family lawyer since forever" and comments that he is basically a fossil, way over retirement age. Another reason it's not good to w*rk too long is that in quite a few cases, you're no longer as good as you were, so someone is getting ripped off, even if inadvertently.
 
I think lawyers in law firms, especially big law firms, keep on working because many law firm business practices lack any clear succession planning. The most recent legal recession has prodded law firms and the entire legal industry to adopt better business practices, which call for better emphasis of business-client development, leadership and management skills, better productivity metrics, and succession planning. I bet in another decade or so, the outdated "club version" of law firm business practices, where partners can remain in the clubhouse for eternity, will no longer be the case. Don't you see this already with the increasing stratification of senior levels in law firms: Of Counsel, Counsel, Senior Counsel (the former equity partner being nudged to hit the road)?
 
My observation... it's not just lawyers... Lots of doctors do the same thing.
An extended family member is 90, and still does rounds on occasion and consults on cases that are in his very specific niche specialty. He loves it. But it's entirely on his own terms... hours of his own choosing. And he knows he doesn't have to.
 
From what I have observed, it is not safe to assume that all lawyers and doctors are in a position to retire at an early age. Financially speaking.
 
How does he keep his license active with all the required hours of clinical practice and CEs with so few hours then ?
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My observation... it's not just lawyers... Lots of doctors do the same thing.
An extended family member is 90, and still does rounds on occasion and consults on cases that are in his very specific niche specialty. He loves it. But it's entirely on his own terms... hours of his own choosing. And he knows he doesn't have to.
 
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Or maybe it is the identity thing-"Hi, my name is John, I'm a lawyer". Or they just haven't had enough time to figure out what they might like to do. It's likely a combination of things.
The early retirees on this board seem to get it pretty well. But I still wonder why more lawyers don't get it? Or maybe I don't get it, who knows? I just know you guys sound a lot happier than my colleagues who are worried about billing a minimum of 8 hours tomorrow. And the next day. And the day after. And....forever.
Martha had no trouble making the switch from "lawyer" to "early retiree". She wanted to cut back hours at her firm, but they couldn't come to her terms. So she retired on her terms.

I have to warn you-- when I started asking similar questions about military retirees, I ended up writing a book.

My observation... it's not just lawyers... Lots of doctors do the same thing.
And university professors, and probably many self-employed people.
 
I am guessing the profession attracts that type of person. I saw it already in my 20-something classmates in law school. Law Review, extra curriculars, moot court, Trial Team, etc. They just couldn't get enough. Some would call it passion, devotion or drive. Others might call it OCD. I think the beginning of the end of my desire to practice law was when I realized what it would take to be on Law Review. You had to spend a whole week after final exams were over in the spring and crank out a very detailed elaborate journal article within that time allotment. Long days and long nights of hard academic work, just to vie for a spot on this Law Journal, so it would look good on your resume, so you would have a better shot at landing a sweet Big Law job paying six figures right out of school, so you could work late into the evening and on Saturdays. No thanks to that! :)

Basically I self selected at age 21 out of the sample of future 85 year old lawyers that would one day die hunched over their desks.
 
How does he keep his license active with all the required hours of clinical practice and CEs with so few hours then ?

That's a good question. He's a professor emeritus - so perhaps his academic pursuits (yes he's still active academically, even though he's no longer full time) help with this.

I checked his license status - still active. Not sure if he's let his board certifications expire.

Kind of funny to be thinking about him in the context of this board - someone who's goals are the opposite of ER.... But he works on his own terms.

My stepmom is the same way - in her 80's and still teaching in nursing. Not because she has to - but because she loves it. (And the college administrators won't let her quit... big time shortage of nurse educators.) She enjoys it and can't imagine stopping.
 
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I'm a 63 year old lawyer who has been in private practice my whole life. We're not rich, but we have plenty of money to live a reasonably decent life and we have no debt. I'm leaving the work force on April 1, 2013.

All the lawyers I know seem amazed. "What are you going to do?" "You'll be bored". "You'll miss the intellectual challenge." Etc., etc.

Looking around my community, there are lots of lawyers who are anywhere from 1 or 2 years older than me to 20 years older than me, still working. I ask myself why? Surely, most of them have enough money to get by, but maybe not.

Lawyers who work for the government or big corporations retire, but it doesn't seem many in private practice do.

I wonder why?

This is an interesting question. My brother (he's 45) is a lawyer (he also has a Ph.D. in pharmacology) and he's making big bucks as a drug patent lawyer. He has said to me that he'll never be able to retire. I don't know if this is the case with MOST lawyers, but he feels pretty secure in his job and partly because of that, he and his wife spend pretty much everything they make (and they make a LOT). Personally I don't understand that. He also really enjoys the work he does, so he doesn't see stopping. I also don't understand that. I've never been so in love with a job that I didn't want to eventually quit doing it. He has to bill 2000 hours each year, and that means he hardly has any time to take off for vacation. He works super hard, so that's admirable on some level, but he has no interest in planning for a future where he won't be working. So, at least for him it's either the inability to save for retirement or the fact that he's driven and loves his work so much that he doesn't think about it or a combination of both. Probably most lawyers are hard-working A-type personality people who just don't see that they could have fun relaxing. I am definitely NOT like that at all. I do work hard, but I also greatly enjoy my time away from work.
 
Ohio, wow! You have described a very dysfunctional person. What memories do you create for your spouse & kids when you live like that? I don't know a single widow or child of a deceased who wished Dad had spent more time in the office. I was that guy 20 years ago but changed. My wife & kids & eventual grand kids deserve better.
 
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