I agree. The higher powers are telling the OP, he can sell his house and quit his job and he'd be fine.
The Higher Power is telling you to pack up your family and move them to a lower cost of living place. And then you really don't need to worry about your extreme stress levels.
I'd hate to think I had a $1.2 million house and your financial resources and still be living middle class.
There are places that you could be living like a king on far less cash outflow. There's a reason thousands of people are moving out of your state.