Toddtheformeraccountant
Recycles dryer sheets
OK, this is probably the third time I've posted. I was the schmuck that last year told mega that I wanted to retire...they responded by doubling my salary and giving me more interesting responsibilities. I contemplated staying a couple more years.
But the BS bucket has grown substantially, particularly with some real dilbertesque decision making and resource allocations (personnel) to my group....and I just can't stand being there and the stress and the nonsense....and I finally said, I'm done. I talked to my boss, telling him that I want to retire early next year. Conversation went much better than I expected, he was very professional and it was a great conversation.
I feel an incredible weight off my shoulders!!
Me 53...DW 54. Last kid about to start college next year.
Our numbers should be fine....we spend $150,000 per year in expenses at most (and that's with heavy padding)... we have $2M in IRA/401K/HSA money, and $5.5M in regular brokerage. House paid for, about $1.0M value.
Could frankly just leave tomorrow...I could live without what I'll make between now and when I leave....but I feel loyalty to the people I work with and want to "end" the right way. I wouldn't feel right just blowing them off.
Another thing I've struggled with (in yet another contemplative post) is what to do with my time. I finally realized....I'd be a real idiot to keep working just to keep myself busy. Work, for entertainment? How stupid would that be. Also, sad....working at a job you hate, because, you can't find something else to do?
Finally realized on that, I'll find things to do and keep myself busy...it'll be a struggle and there will be an adjustment period for sure...but I'll figure it out.
Thank you for everyone in this group, responding to my repeated posts, and in reading all the great material here....thank you thank you!!!!!!
But the BS bucket has grown substantially, particularly with some real dilbertesque decision making and resource allocations (personnel) to my group....and I just can't stand being there and the stress and the nonsense....and I finally said, I'm done. I talked to my boss, telling him that I want to retire early next year. Conversation went much better than I expected, he was very professional and it was a great conversation.
I feel an incredible weight off my shoulders!!
Me 53...DW 54. Last kid about to start college next year.
Our numbers should be fine....we spend $150,000 per year in expenses at most (and that's with heavy padding)... we have $2M in IRA/401K/HSA money, and $5.5M in regular brokerage. House paid for, about $1.0M value.
Could frankly just leave tomorrow...I could live without what I'll make between now and when I leave....but I feel loyalty to the people I work with and want to "end" the right way. I wouldn't feel right just blowing them off.
Another thing I've struggled with (in yet another contemplative post) is what to do with my time. I finally realized....I'd be a real idiot to keep working just to keep myself busy. Work, for entertainment? How stupid would that be. Also, sad....working at a job you hate, because, you can't find something else to do?
Finally realized on that, I'll find things to do and keep myself busy...it'll be a struggle and there will be an adjustment period for sure...but I'll figure it out.
Thank you for everyone in this group, responding to my repeated posts, and in reading all the great material here....thank you thank you!!!!!!