Originally Posted by Aerides
One other thing to keep in mind: Don't ask your wife everyday what you can do to help out more. Just do it. Don't make it her job to assign you tasks. Don't turn her into your boss, just take over all the things - dinner, cleaning (not just tidying up: toilets, showers, vacuuming, laundry - including folding and putting away). Take her car out on sunday nights to fill up the tank for the week. Have her take your car to work once a month and do a deep detailing on hers for her.
These are the things I do everyday for my wife (but she usually will clean things like the shower), I also make her breakfast, lunch and dinner. This morning for example I did the shopping after the gym. If I take a day off of work, I get up with her, make her breakfast, get the car warmed up and ready to go, if the car needs gas, I get it before.
She's always very appreciative of the things I do for her, but I do these things, because she's my wife and wouldn't want her any other way.