For a lot of people they have no choice, it's simply where the jobs are for their (specialized) field.
Interesting response from the guy...
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Second, Schiff says it takes a lot more money to live a "middle class" lifestyle in NYC today than it did when he was growing up there in the 1970s.
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But what Schiff is describing is something that almost all Americans can relate to, assuming they can get by the sticker shock of what it costs to live in NYC: The middle class is getting squeezed and the very definition of "middle class" is changing.
]The median income for a family of four in the US is somewhere in the $70k-$80k range.
What I've read about the high income Wall Street people is that they are typically very bright and went to highly selective colleges. They are people who could have been CPAs, engineers, IT gurus, etc. There are many places in the US where you can do those jobs with modest commutes and expenses. Instead, they chose this type of Finance knowing that most of the jobs are in a few, high COL, areas.
So I think they had many more attractive choices than most people, they simply chose this lifestyle.
"I'm not Zen at all, and when I'm freaking out about the situation, where I'm stuck like a rat in a trap on a highway with no way to get out, it's very hard,"
When I graduated with an engineering degree, there were a lot of jobs in the SF Bay area. The starting salaries were higher too. But I found a nice job in a nice but much lower cost of living area (at the time), and I believe I was much better off for it.When I graduated from university, most the people I knew picked what they wanted to do and then went to wherever the jobs were. When you are young, you often don't think too much about COL, etc. After you get a few years down a track it can be very hard to change.
Even in a field like engineering, I would disagree with you that you can always find a job in low cost of living areas. While this might be true for some specialities, for others you are again stuck with where the employers are located (usually big cities on the coasts with high costs of living).
In my field, I'm basically restricted to SF Bay area, seattle, and few of the big cities on the east cost. There are occasionally jobs in low COL areas but if you look at the location with a long term view, there is one position with one employer and if it doesn't work out you are going to be screwed.
Exactly right. Then they get mad when the bottom of the pyramids isn't sympathetic to their plight.In such a situation, people might think things are getting worse for them (because they only look up the pyramid). But, they seem too blind to look down.