scrabbler1
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Back in 2008, my dad's financial advisor mentioned to my dad (mom is deceased) that he makes sure he had an updated will along with other estate documents such as a health care proxy and a trust to put the house into.
My dad and I went to a local estate lawyer and we put the documents together. My brother lives out of state with his wife and young son (age 4 at the time) but was kept in the loop and had to sign off on all the documents.
The will had some boilerplate language about a beneficiary's inheritance being challenged if he were unemployed or otherwise a deadbeat. While I was still working at the time, my ER plans were moving ahead in full, as I expected to retire by the end of the year. I asked to have that language struck from the will to protect me from any possible challenge, even though I knew I wouldn't be a deadbeat or anything close. Nobody objected, thankfully.
My brother and I are both doing well (he is wealthier than me) and have never been a burden on my dad (or my parents, when she was still alive). Sometimes, when my dad incurs some unforeseen expenses such as some costly dental work, he kids my brother and me by saying, "There goes some more of your inheritance!" We enjoy the good laugh.
My dad and I went to a local estate lawyer and we put the documents together. My brother lives out of state with his wife and young son (age 4 at the time) but was kept in the loop and had to sign off on all the documents.
The will had some boilerplate language about a beneficiary's inheritance being challenged if he were unemployed or otherwise a deadbeat. While I was still working at the time, my ER plans were moving ahead in full, as I expected to retire by the end of the year. I asked to have that language struck from the will to protect me from any possible challenge, even though I knew I wouldn't be a deadbeat or anything close. Nobody objected, thankfully.
My brother and I are both doing well (he is wealthier than me) and have never been a burden on my dad (or my parents, when she was still alive). Sometimes, when my dad incurs some unforeseen expenses such as some costly dental work, he kids my brother and me by saying, "There goes some more of your inheritance!" We enjoy the good laugh.