haha
Give me a museum and I'll fill it. (Picasso) Give me a forum ...
Very good analysis of one of life's better situations. I have this too. I like dates with frames around them, saying, "hey girl, this is fun time." Lately I have able to get easy extra points by having her over for dinner often, because her place is being painted inside, and it is hard for her to get meals made after work. Also, when a woman isn't around all the time it is easier for some men, definitely including me, to have our game on when she is around. When we are together, I am not going to be distracted or preoccupied with some day to day thing, and I can be fully available emotionally to pay attention to her.So your lady friend still works, too? I highly recommend this, as it is a perfect scenario. I get my alone time in the day, with no marching orders, then can go over in evening and visit. Since she has to get up early in the morning, she goes to bed early so I don't have to be over there all night. Me thinks serious problems would occur if we got married. I imagine the resentment would grow, knowing for the next 18 years of marriage she would have to roll out of bed to go to work while I do nothing. But don't think I am a cheapo, it's just if we married and she immediately retired, then I would have to go back to work, because she has few assets, and I don't have enough for two!
Ha
Last edited: