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So DH and I, (mostly me) talk about moving to a home with a better floor plan so that we can age in place. Number 1 on the list is a 1st Floor Master, 2nd in importance is exterior grounds maintenance (mowing, landscaping maintenance and snow plowing) managed and provided by someone other than ourselves. Numbers 3,4,5, etc. are various other preferences for room sizes and configurations.
I feel it would be better to do this in the next 1-2 years as we are now 71/74. DH likes our current home, as do I, but it will become increasingly impractical as we get older, so sooner than later seems wize.
Well we finally found the perfect home, perfect floor plan, beautiful PUD community with luxurious grounds. Even DH approves. The home is a similar size to ours (2,900 SF) and the floor plan is perfect. The sales price is about 150K more than ours, but that's OK.
But we realized we'll have to buy our next home before we sell ours and our home, although in tip top shape, is filled to the gills with "our stuff". We can swing owning 2 homes at once but I wouldn't want to be in that position for very long.
Soooooo we have spent the last month sorting through a lifetime's worth of belongings. The last time we moved was 1991, so the "stuff" has grown and grown. Our 3 prior moves, although always to larger homes, involved decluttering prior to the move. I'm not the garage sale type so we've been gathering piles for the junk man, the local Goodwill shop, the local ASPCA (bedding/towels) and man it has been a huge job. Making "keep" or "trash" decisions with DH has been tough. Some if this "stuff" hasn't seen the light of day for 20 years or more. I mean, we have my parent's "good dishes ", DH's grandmother's "good dishes" and his parent's "good dishes" and three sets of silver flatware. Not to mention our own set of good dishes that I force myself to use once a year at Thanksgiving, even though it can't go into the dishwasher as it has silver banded rims. And our kids of course have no interest in any of this dishware.
Anyone with similar stories or tips to share?
I feel it would be better to do this in the next 1-2 years as we are now 71/74. DH likes our current home, as do I, but it will become increasingly impractical as we get older, so sooner than later seems wize.
Well we finally found the perfect home, perfect floor plan, beautiful PUD community with luxurious grounds. Even DH approves. The home is a similar size to ours (2,900 SF) and the floor plan is perfect. The sales price is about 150K more than ours, but that's OK.
But we realized we'll have to buy our next home before we sell ours and our home, although in tip top shape, is filled to the gills with "our stuff". We can swing owning 2 homes at once but I wouldn't want to be in that position for very long.
Soooooo we have spent the last month sorting through a lifetime's worth of belongings. The last time we moved was 1991, so the "stuff" has grown and grown. Our 3 prior moves, although always to larger homes, involved decluttering prior to the move. I'm not the garage sale type so we've been gathering piles for the junk man, the local Goodwill shop, the local ASPCA (bedding/towels) and man it has been a huge job. Making "keep" or "trash" decisions with DH has been tough. Some if this "stuff" hasn't seen the light of day for 20 years or more. I mean, we have my parent's "good dishes ", DH's grandmother's "good dishes" and his parent's "good dishes" and three sets of silver flatware. Not to mention our own set of good dishes that I force myself to use once a year at Thanksgiving, even though it can't go into the dishwasher as it has silver banded rims. And our kids of course have no interest in any of this dishware.
Anyone with similar stories or tips to share?