someday soon
Dryer sheet aficionado
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Well, the newly married daughter & son-in-law ( would that be DD and DSIL?? ) escaped Brooklyn and are starting life over in our basement apartment for awhile, till they can save up for a house down pmt in our expensive-ish metropolitan area in the western US ( median house price is mid-400s ). In these wild and uncertain times, we are incredibly grateful that they both found new jobs in our community. They are diligent savers and will prob buy their own place within a year.
Relationships are fine -- they are glad to hang out with us awhile and we're glad to have them. But we ( dad & mom ) can't help but think, "hey, maybe we can accelerate their path by helping with the down payment..."
Has anyone here ever ventured down that path?
We're interested in hearing not so much about how family dynamics may be affected ( though that could happen ) ...but more about the financial mechanics:
* gift or loan and why?
* who paid taxes on what ( if any )?
* are there any "gotcha" or helpful laws we should know about?
* did your private gift/loan have to be disclosed in the main mortgage/lending process? ..did it affect the mortgage terms?
* would you change anything if you could have a do-over?
Any and all insights welcome -- and thanks in advance for your collective wisdom!
Relationships are fine -- they are glad to hang out with us awhile and we're glad to have them. But we ( dad & mom ) can't help but think, "hey, maybe we can accelerate their path by helping with the down payment..."
Has anyone here ever ventured down that path?
We're interested in hearing not so much about how family dynamics may be affected ( though that could happen ) ...but more about the financial mechanics:
* gift or loan and why?
* who paid taxes on what ( if any )?
* are there any "gotcha" or helpful laws we should know about?
* did your private gift/loan have to be disclosed in the main mortgage/lending process? ..did it affect the mortgage terms?
* would you change anything if you could have a do-over?
Any and all insights welcome -- and thanks in advance for your collective wisdom!
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