W2R
Moderator Emeritus
What blows me away are those who say that they don't want to plan for the possibility of living to extreme old age, because their kids would take care of them in that unlikely event. And yet, they might resent having to help their own parents under similar circumstances.
My approach would be to go with her to arrange for food stamps, and make sure her house is paid off (or get her into a low cost paid off condo if it isn't). I'd take her to a senior center and see what they could do for her, too. Then I'd have her utility bills and property tax sent to me, and that's about all. She would have food, shelter, and utilities taken care of.
I'd spend time with her when I could. She probably wants that as much as anything.
My approach would be to go with her to arrange for food stamps, and make sure her house is paid off (or get her into a low cost paid off condo if it isn't). I'd take her to a senior center and see what they could do for her, too. Then I'd have her utility bills and property tax sent to me, and that's about all. She would have food, shelter, and utilities taken care of.
I'd spend time with her when I could. She probably wants that as much as anything.