OldShooter
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Actually, this kind of greed is quite common. DW retired as an SVP in megabank investments and trust; here is one thing she heard fairly frequently from someone in her client's family:It's shameful for family to start wrestling for money and property before a body has cooled at the morge, but trying to grab $$ even before person is deceased, that's a whole new level. I guess possible to take a share of the inheritance, since person is still living the "estate" value is $0, so half of $0 is still $0. [emoji3]
"Gee, mom has really deteriorated and she really is not too aware of what is going on around her. Don't you think it would be OK to move her from that expensive private room into a shared room?"
DW's response: "Your father set up this trust to ensure that your mother would be comfortable for the rest of her life. That is the purpose of the trust. No, we are not going to move her."