Well, spending more does buy some happiness. Up to a point.
For me, that point is below $200K/year (way below), unless inflation runs rampant.
I'm probably headed towards my biggest spending year since retiring.
Definitely the most for travel spending.
But I'm spending less than 1.5% of my assets and I haven't had to sell much.
I was just looking at airfares and hotel rates for various places. Business class airline tickets and nicer lodgings don't necessarily make me happier or enjoy the trips more. They do however allow me to avoid miserable experiences such as a 10-14 hour flight in coach.
Yet I'm looking for value rates or ways to upgrade some of these flights without paying business-class tickets outright.
Or my lease ran out last year and I had to get another car but there were shortages and dealers were marking up cars like crazy. I found a dealer who only marked up $1000 back in January.
Worst case, if I really wanted a different car, ike an EV, I could probably have paid a few thousand markup.
Again it's not about the thing itself making you happy, it's just more buyer's remorse, the feeling that you've been taken advantage of or someone made a lot of money at your expense.
There are some destinations where high demand or limited supply makes lodging prices really poor. Banff is like that, the Canadian Park service limits lodgings within their parks so the prices are ridiculous. Hawaii was like that, at least last year.
I'd like to go to those places but there are other places I can enjoy as much or more, where the travel markets are not so distorted.