I am hoping someone can give me some guidance in saving and investing for retirement. I am not very educated with investing and have major trust issues with my money in other people’s hands.
I have not had very much success in saving money in employer 401K's and simple IRA's as about every 8 to 10 years in my working life, market crashes and recessions have taken large portions of my savings go poof. I was never able to save much early in life due to various reasons and now I am 51 and very worried about being able to retire.
I must come clean in regards to my knowledge of the market, I know quite a bit about making dumb mistakes, bad choices and illogical hunches on when and what to buy and sell, oh, and my favorite bit of knowledge I possess is panic and selling, after the bottom has fallen out.
I know the track I have been on for the last 8 years is not going to get me where I need to be and I have lots of ground to make up. I guess what I was hoping for by posting here was someone would have some magical advice of hey, been there done that, you need to put money here on x,y and z, let it ride and don't worry about the market roller coaster, and for x amount of investment you should make about y ( please do not suggest an annuity to me).
As many knew from your first post, and have already noted - sadly you’re unsatisfactory investing results are due to your impulses, not market ups and downs. You made the same mistake most people make if they don’t understand long term market behavior, you’re not unusual.
You don’t lose money in down markets unless you sell. Many of us here rode the market down in 2008, and it was painful and scary, but we didn’t sell and some even bought more equities. Markets are up about 3X now from the 2008 bottom, you didn’t have to lose, you would be way ahead if you’d just held broad equity market index funds and done nothing during the financial meltdown...
Much of your discussion has centered on where to invest and what to hold. But
if you can’t learn to stay the course in downturns, where your money is and what it WAS invested in won’t matter. There have always been up and down markets, and history says there always will be. Every time people say
this time is different, and it never has been yet.
Putting all your money in savings is fine when you’re 90 and protecting your assets, but you’ll never make up ground using savings, CD’s and the like. Savings is the equivalent of treading water, you’ll be lucky to even keep up with inflation.
Reading a lot about market behavior from Bogle, Bernstein and the like makes it easier to endure down markets. I’d start there. And then invest simply with a moderate AA, rebalance as needed OR a balanced fund that does it all for you - and leave the money alone in good times
and bad. Financial advisors are not popular here because they extract high fees, but if you can’t resist selling when the going gets tough, you might benefit from having a pro talking you off the (selling) ledge.
Best of luck, we’re here to offer suggestions on how to win at long term investing. You won’t find get rich quick philosophies here. You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to invest successfully, but it does take some knowledge and inner strength.