It helps to use two definitions, IMO. Your investable assets and your net worth. I think many people on this form consider home equity part of their net worth, but not their investable assets.
When planning your retirement, think of the income you can generate, not asset base. If you have a rental that returns a net of $1,000 a month, you will need less 3%-4% withdrawal money, right? (In essence, $1,000 a month in rentals, is worth $250k at 4% withdrawn, if that helps).
Our rental property returns a net average of just under 7%, not including tax benefits. As a result, we do not need as much in assets as a 4% withdrawal type scenario.
And you can use this same thinking when putting SS retirement benefits or a part time job into the mix.
Focus on the income you need in retirement, and work from there.
Thanks. This crystallized how I've been trying to think about it and makes sense to me. Essentially 24k of income adds an extra 500k to our property budget, *assuming* that 24k is sustainable and increases with inflation, etc...
This feels not crazy as long as that 500k isn't a large % of your investable assets.
I really appreciate all of the thoughtful comments. I do think when a home is a significant part of your NW and a significant $ value, that it shouldn't be considered as zero, though I understand the assumption for planning purposes. I've been thinking about it as zero when it comes to income needed to get us to 95% in firecalc, but is a safety net in case we need expensive LtC, as others have mentioned, which I think is a reasonable way to approach things.