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I’m not picking on her, but I am curious. How many hours a week does your wife work, and what does she do on her days off? Do you have the nanny every day or only at times your wife is working?
Many of the services that you are paying for could be done by a non-employed partner. Heck, back when the kids were 2 and 4 years old, DH and I were each working full time and the only help we had was daycare (offsite, I did drop off and pick up) and a cleaning service every other week. I would think a spouse working part time could do the grocery shopping and make phone calls/answer emails.
I was thinking this too. OP said she works 1-2 days per week for about 20k per year, but she loves it - that's great.
But she has a full time nanny for the baby, the older is in pre-school, and she has a house cleaner (every 2 weeks), meals and groceries delivered, etc.
I bow to a Queen!