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Many conversations here go quickly in that direction. I make a quick exit."Bullying" is a strong term and I think it's over-used these days. I will say that I feel that I have to immediately go on the defensive and make it clear that I'm not lazy, clueless, apathetic, etc. and that my financial advisor actually knows what he's talking about.
Interesting development today: I fill out lots of e-Rewards surveys, especially on financial topics (just redeemed Funny Money for a $25 Starbucks gift card). This morning's was from one of the organizations offering a financial advisor/planner designation and asked a lot of questions about my opinions of various financial planning professional categories. It included some commercials I've seen recently and wanted my opinion of those. Some of these surveys ask that you not name names, so I won't name the organization, but I thought that it was interesting that they're looking to see how much credibility particular designations (or lack thereof) carry.
I think the argument against FA's is correct in-general. But not always true, as in your situation.