However, we will likely work a few more years so that we will be able to "live the good life". Basically everything we earn from now until we retire can be spent on "wants" like travel, cars, giving, rv's, etc. etc.
How did you all decide how much "good life" budget you wanted in retirement?
We sort of did it the other way around. We weren't all that frugal before DH retired and I semi-retired. Part of that was that we had 3 kids with lots of expenses.
So, some things like that we've sort of been there, done that and don't really want or need to do it now. (I had my Corvette when I was 34 and it was great but I don't miss it now).
Anyway, we are probably different from many here in that our spending now is much less than what we earned during our working years and that is with kids in college. In a few years, it will go down again.
We are already spending much less than we spent, say, 5 to 10 years ago. But, I don't see that our lifestyle has changed in any material way.
Part of it is the usual stuff (lower taxes, don't need to save for retirement, expenses related to work) but part of was conscious decisions we made that greatly reduced ongoing expenses but didn't really change our lifestyle. For example, we moved into a smaller house with much lower maintenance costs. The house is just as nice as the one we sold. We just cut a lot of things but our lifestyle hasn't really changed mostly because the things we cut weren't the things that really mattered to us.
We did leave room for some things discretionary we want to do in retirement but when we really looked at it, most of them weren't really that expensive.