People can drive around in a Mercedes or buy a McMansion, and this conspicuous consumption is often admired, even if partially envied. But have you ever met someone who talks about FIRE? We are obviously out here. I drive around in my clunker and probably look like I am just getting by, yet am better off than the vast majority of the folks who do not LBYM. But I cannot discuss my finances or plans to RE with anyone, except my wife (and even then I am cautious, since it always seems better that she thinks we are not doing quite so well lest a new spending project might materialize).
This board is about the closest I have to a sounding board, and even than I am careful not to get too detailed or personal. It would be nice to recognize/celebrate what we have accomplished, but I feel constrained to hide it. At work, people will say it is impossible to save or they need to work until they are 70, etc. I just nod my head. I am not going to say that my problem is not when I retire but what I will do, that in most years my portfolio grows quicker than my whole annual salary.
Do any of you feel this way? Can you talk to anyone other than us? Who do you share your future plans with?
This board is about the closest I have to a sounding board, and even than I am careful not to get too detailed or personal. It would be nice to recognize/celebrate what we have accomplished, but I feel constrained to hide it. At work, people will say it is impossible to save or they need to work until they are 70, etc. I just nod my head. I am not going to say that my problem is not when I retire but what I will do, that in most years my portfolio grows quicker than my whole annual salary.
Do any of you feel this way? Can you talk to anyone other than us? Who do you share your future plans with?