>>Badger said, "If I am sad, depressed, and unhappy then I would just as soon call it a day than spend the rest of my life miserably marking time">>
I would remind people that very few states have assisted suicide laws. And should you begin to develop dementia, did you know that it can be difficult, if not impossible, for an afflicted patient to legally choose assisted suicide? In CA no one else is allowed to choose it for you, no matter what your wishes are/were and no matter whether there is a Healthcare Power of Attorney filled out or not.
CalPERS is currently settling a lawsuit and offering all policyholders a buyout. We got our (separate) LTCi policies in our late 40's. Roughly each of us has invested $42K over the policy period.
So many people want to "die at home." As examples posted have pointed out, dying at home is a much more expensive affair than being in a facility. Also, for certain conditions you will NOT be allowed to die at home. If you need extensive medical care - not an aide, but an actual nurse or nurse practitioner - or certain types of medical equipment 24/7, you don't have a choice....facility care is the only alternative.
Facility care in our area is extremely expensive (but yes, 24/7 homecare is even more so, with our high labor costs). We picked out the Skilled Nursing Care facility that is our preferred choice, several years ago. They are a relative "bargain" at just under $10K/month. A nearby chain facility is rated almost as highly, but as a for-profit charges a much heftier $15K/month.
Fortunately no kids, so no concerns about leaving an estate. But the facility care for one of us - and genetically/medically it is VERY likely to happen - would quickly exhaust our total assets at today's prices, let alone future inflated prices some 5-15 yrs from now.
I have said this before and I'll say it again. Insurance is not to ELIMINATE all your fiscal risk. It is there to REDUCE your risk potential. If your home burns down, I hate to tell you this but as many in CA have discovered, that homeowners policy you have ain't paying 100% for everything you lost, either.
You need Depends? Or a bathrobe and slippers? Neither LTCi, Medicare, or Medicaid is going to pay for them, sorry.