... My post is to find out what the general public believe we should do to cope with the possibility for us to support them in the future, after we retire early.
No problem with that. Getting the viewpoint of others may give you a solution/approach, or may trigger thoughts of your own to a solution/approach.
I'm not here to find out how many ways my words could be interpreted, but I do see people could take our question and make it offensive to them no matter what.
As threads get longer, an "inversion of intent" is not uncommon. People may jump into a topic that is well underway, not reading the "n" number of pages of responses to date. Their response can be colored by those responses on the same page that they DID look at. As such, I comment on only few topics that have gone on to many pages, as I do the reading.
In my work life, I was responsible for many people, the far majority professional people. And I was amazed (disheartened) by the varying takes many had on a situation/speech/whatever that all witnessed equally. A few were so far out I wondered if they went off on an astral plane during a big meeting (even if I was an observer too, not leading the meeting).
I learned to never underestimate the ability of people to pick up the wrong end of the stick, or to be offended if they wanted something to be offended about.
A very small number of threads around here start reminding me of work, eww.
The natural follow-up question is, giving their current financial situation they should have no problem living out of their golden years comfortable, if they manage the fund prudently. We are going to retire early on a much more frugal standard. What would be the socially appropriate support we should prepare to provide if they do run out of money in the future? We need to determine that now and save accordingly before we retire early, to gauge the general opinion is why I ask this question here in forum.
And there is nothing wrong with asking. It is better to gauge it NOW, rather than it being dumped on you LATER.
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personal opinion of what I would do if I were you I put in a previous post. As in most things, I do not expect everyone to agree with my opinion. You are in the driver's seat, and you will choose what path you take. And I heartily compliment you on planning, rather than just defaulting to putting out a (future) major fire when it happens.