I recently retired form a lifetime of real estate, mortgages, and appraisals. It all started trying to save a commission just like you. I had paid $18,900 for my first home and went to sell it a couple of years later for $30,000. Got a giant “Yikes!” when I calculated $1800 for commissions! That was a couple of months wages at the time. And I had just been laid off. So I went to real estate school for several months and spent several hundred dollars of my savings. Several more months and several more hundred dollars I had found an office, bought business cards, joined a couple of expensive boards of realty, and began 12 weeks of training that cost a pretty penny. Finally I was ready to save my $1800! But wait. My broker explained that half of that $1800 ($900) would go to the agent that brought in the buyer. And the franchise we belonged to (Red Carpet at the time) would take 7% off the top of our $900 (-$63) leaving $837 coming to our office. As a broken and office owner he explained we would then split 50/50 leaving me $418.50. But there were some advertising costs he would subtract from that and “errors and omissions insurance” premiums to be paid. Long story short…I sold my home and saved almost $400 after 6-8 months of my life. Not even a buck an hour! But I did go on to sell those little homes by the dozen and made a real killing in the 70’s as a young man. And I retired from a good and interesting career because of that first experience.
I know it sounds like a lot of money. And it really is. BUT in my opinion it is the safest and best way to realize the highest net proceeds from one of the most important investments ion your life. And it gets split far more than you can imagine. Can you do it yourself? Absolutely! But can you do it yourself AND save the commission that would normally be paid to professionals? I really doubt it. Even with a lifetime of experience in real estate, mortgages, and appraisals I ALWAYS hire the best Realtor I can find. And I’m cheap, cheap, cheap! I do it for one reason…they can handle everything for me and send me to the bank with more money than I could by doing it myself. This is mostly due to the magic of the MLS. But other things, like having experienced third parties helping with the negotiations are very valuable too.
Most buyers want to be represented and have a Realtor help them. In my experience the ones that don’t are trying to save the same commission you are trying to save. Time and time again I see FSBO’s selling their home successfully, but it is normally at a below market sale and LESS any commission that would normally be paid to pros.
In an ideal world people could determine exactly what a property would be worth, split the commission savings, and conclude a deal peacefully. The buyer would save 3% for going without pro help, and so would the seller. In almost 50 years I could count on both hands the people who were able to pull that off.