Okay, the USA does make it possible for you to be successful. I agree and am only referring to people in the USA. Rich and poor in the USA.
I didn't take the discussion to other countries, you did.
And everyone in the USA has the opportunity to better themselves. That's my point. I was raised poor, I chose to better myself. So no, I don't have contempt for poor people, I was one.
But I also don't have sympathy for those who remain poor due to their own poor choices. For example:
2 of my employees have starting salaries around 40K. My wife and I make substantially more than that running the business. In the morning, these 2 employees bring in coffee from Starbucks. At lunch, they always go out and bring containers from Paradise Bakery, California Pizza Kitchen, etc.
By contrast, my wife and I brew coffee at work and bring a brown bag lunch. Around 3 days or so before every paycheck, I hear these employees bitching about how they don't know if they are going to make it to the next paycheck. And one of these employees, I know for a fact, got about a $10,000 increase from her last job when I hired her 4 months ago.
My point is that people make choices, good and bad, and pay for the consequences. Is the U.S. the greatest country on earth for fairness and opportunity, absolutely! But people have to choose whether to take advantage of that opportunity or not to.
I don't have contempt for those that don't take advantage of the benefits of this country but I also don't feel sorry for them. And I am disturbed by the fact that the current Obama Administration wants to take more and more of my hard earned salary to provide benefits for those who choose not to work hard and not to strive for a better life.
Everyone is entitled to their poor choices but I think those choices should have consequences. I feel the same for businesses, ala General Motors. We can see how well that bailout is working.
One Senator put it well recently explaining why consequences are necessary for positive behavior. He said just look at a wedding. Compare the different behavior of the guests when it is an "open bar" versus a "cash bar". I think that says it all. Currently the U.S. is moving toward and "open bar" and I don't think this story ends well.