I came in to say dental, since it’s what I forgot when I did my first budget.
Other things that are pushing us up: switching costs of moving and getting the new house where we want it, unexpected expenses with kids, and tree costs, as others have mentioned. We pay a landscaper to do most of our yard maintenance, but the extra tree trimming/removal has been significant.
We bought a 20yr old house, so pretty much everything is going at once. We knew it would be coming, but having to pay a premium for substandard parts because of the shortages was unexpected. I’m just glad we did so much when we first moved in. The pool equipment alone has been a lot more than expected.
I think also, we’re just home more now, so all those little things we might have ignored or forgotten about we have the time to repair or have repaired. Thankfully I budgeted a fair amount for hobbies, so we’re tracking to budget, but if I had gone on past numbers it would have been a surprise.
Someone mentioned stuff that normally gets paid for by your job. DH is self employed, so when he completely stops working there will be some tax impact, since we won’t be able to expense as much. My computer died this year and for the first time in ages I had to purchase one out of pocket.
The flip side to this is that we planned to 95 but the more I see of what 95 actually looks like, the less I want to live that long. And if we do, it will be in a very downsized lifestyle/spend. There’s no way we could maintain what we have now at that age, even if we hired everything out.
We also have a lot more time to optimize savings on monthly bills, cc rewards etc…