boss61
Confused about dryer sheets
Hello. We're new here and retired a little early in mid 2022 (I'm in my early 60s and my wife is in her late 50s). Selling a business and a modest inheritance combined to support this leap of faith. Technically I'm semi-retired, though not working more than a handful of hours a week. I consider myself retired for the sake of the financial considerations now here for us.
Our kids are grown and flown and our home is paid for, and we can retire-in-place if we so choose (its a rancher - the luck of accidental fortuitious planning). We have a little over $1M in liquid assets, not counting the house and ideally, we'd hope to leave some to our kids (and future, potential grandchildren) at the end. I elected early social security based on lack of family longevity; my health is excellent at the moment.
We'd like to travel while our comparative youth and health still allows; we did not do so much in our working years but we have some in the last year and change. (Do see the French Riviera if you can!). In addition to travel, we spent the last year figuring out our monthly budget; this took a while but e think we have a handle.
Initially we placed ourselves in the care of a fiduciary-based independent financial planning firm, and we had an introductiory deal to access their expertise (long story related to the sale of our business). We're approaching the end of that deal and now going forward, they want 1% per year of assets-under-managemet to continue as their hands-on client with bimonthly or quarterly check-ins.
Not fully trusting their service yet, and not wanting to get fully entangled until we were sure we were happy in the long term, we gave them control of our non-401k resources (about a third), but kept our 401K moneys (about two thirds) under our independent management through T. Rowe Price in "balanced" retirement funds, tempered by their independent suggestions now and then.
We think the firm is knowledgeable, and we seem none the worse for wear from having transitioned from one person to another because of a resignation there. Still, what they want is to manage it all, for 1% per year, and stuck in my craw is that it seems expensive for someone to merely tell us which asset we need to liquidate when to fund our retirement lifestyles. I've done the math on 1% per year and it ain't pretty.
Ideally we'd find an hourly, fee-only fiduciary who truly would place our interests ahead of revenues and profits for the firm. Other than internet blind-man's-bluff (reading web sites and guessing), the relationship we seek seems elusive unless you happen to get lucky. Very ideally we'd leverage the guys we are with to accept an hourly arrangement; we like them other than the cost.
Has anyone developed a list of key screening questions that have worked to identify an hourly, fee-only fiduciary who places professional ethics ahead of revenue, profit and (I'll say it) greed? I'd love to know how folks screened for such services, as we cannot be the only people in search of this. Thanks.
Our kids are grown and flown and our home is paid for, and we can retire-in-place if we so choose (its a rancher - the luck of accidental fortuitious planning). We have a little over $1M in liquid assets, not counting the house and ideally, we'd hope to leave some to our kids (and future, potential grandchildren) at the end. I elected early social security based on lack of family longevity; my health is excellent at the moment.
We'd like to travel while our comparative youth and health still allows; we did not do so much in our working years but we have some in the last year and change. (Do see the French Riviera if you can!). In addition to travel, we spent the last year figuring out our monthly budget; this took a while but e think we have a handle.
Initially we placed ourselves in the care of a fiduciary-based independent financial planning firm, and we had an introductiory deal to access their expertise (long story related to the sale of our business). We're approaching the end of that deal and now going forward, they want 1% per year of assets-under-managemet to continue as their hands-on client with bimonthly or quarterly check-ins.
Not fully trusting their service yet, and not wanting to get fully entangled until we were sure we were happy in the long term, we gave them control of our non-401k resources (about a third), but kept our 401K moneys (about two thirds) under our independent management through T. Rowe Price in "balanced" retirement funds, tempered by their independent suggestions now and then.
We think the firm is knowledgeable, and we seem none the worse for wear from having transitioned from one person to another because of a resignation there. Still, what they want is to manage it all, for 1% per year, and stuck in my craw is that it seems expensive for someone to merely tell us which asset we need to liquidate when to fund our retirement lifestyles. I've done the math on 1% per year and it ain't pretty.
Ideally we'd find an hourly, fee-only fiduciary who truly would place our interests ahead of revenues and profits for the firm. Other than internet blind-man's-bluff (reading web sites and guessing), the relationship we seek seems elusive unless you happen to get lucky. Very ideally we'd leverage the guys we are with to accept an hourly arrangement; we like them other than the cost.
Has anyone developed a list of key screening questions that have worked to identify an hourly, fee-only fiduciary who places professional ethics ahead of revenue, profit and (I'll say it) greed? I'd love to know how folks screened for such services, as we cannot be the only people in search of this. Thanks.