Thanks for your thoughts and help
Thank you, to everyone who took the trouble to respond, and to those who encouraged me to learn how to do the return myself. It was also interesting to hear from folks whose situation is much more complicated than ours.
My ultimate goal is what 2Cor521 described: Go to a CPA with the more arcane questions, and pay for informed answers.
For now, I decided to follow Nords's suggestion to pay $1400+ for a course in the "school of experience." (Aren't we all enrolled in that darn school all the time, anyway?) I dropped off the user-unfriendly, filled-out 2009 tax "organizer" at the CPA's office on Friday. Meanwhile, I finished my mock-up 2009 return in TaxAct and will compare my results when the professional return is done. Along those lines, the suggestion to re-do 2008's return appealed to me, since I learn by doing. Thanks for making me aware that the software for 2008 is still available on-line.
Thanks to all who sent me links to information and software programs. I am checking them out.
The suggestion to cut down on the number of 1099's makes sense, but there's an irony: Selling the securities generates even MORE 1099's!
the pension exclusion is usually provided on the 1099R from OPM -- block 2a shows the taxable amount of the pension. .
On husband's 1099R, that block says UNKNOWN. I hope to figure it out by re-doing 2008's return.
Your I doubt he or she would sign the return as preparer and back you up in the event of an audit.
I wouldn't expect him to sign a return that I prepared. As for backing us up, their engagement letter states that they charge an hourly fee for that....so we would be out even more money....still, I guess the firm would "make good" if the error turned out to be theirs.
I would not want to be your CPA... with you calling to interupt me while you input all this data into your program but when you get into a fix, call me and then I have to waste my time trying to figure out what the heck it is you are trying to tell me is wrong... not knowing anything about the program you are using... See, you are getting him out of his flow so you should pay him for it.
I agree, that would be a rude, ignorant way to treat another professional. I wouldn't put up with it and I'm sure no CPA would.
I also appreciated Deserat's thoughtful point - that there is almost a civic responsibility to understand how our taxes are computed:
I consider it part of being a citizen. It allows me to find out exactly what my government is doing and how. Money is one of those subjects the government gets serious about and the tax code is the way you see how serious they are.
Amethyst