My MIL announced this week that she is ready to sell the family home and move to Charleston to live near my BIL, SIL and the grandkids. She has in mind that a continuing care retirement community would be best because she "only wants to move once."
From my initial searching around, CCRCs sound expensive and I'm not sure she can afford that option. I also found some new articles from a few years ago about ones that went bankrupt during the recession. This makes me question whether CCRCs are even a good idea at this point.
MIL is 67, in good health, but acts older. She admits to being lonely and I think she'd be happier in a place with more social activity.
So at the moment she mainly needs to downsize and find a crowd where she can make some friends, but she's also looking toward the future, knowing that she won't be independent forever and she doesn't want to live with family if she can help it.
I found some good advice on older threads here about what to consider when looking at retirement communities, but most people here seemed to be looking more at 55+ communities, not so much transitioning to assisted living.
How important is it to find a place now that will work for the next 30 years (her family tends to be long-lived)? Is that even possible? Advice welcome!
From my initial searching around, CCRCs sound expensive and I'm not sure she can afford that option. I also found some new articles from a few years ago about ones that went bankrupt during the recession. This makes me question whether CCRCs are even a good idea at this point.
MIL is 67, in good health, but acts older. She admits to being lonely and I think she'd be happier in a place with more social activity.
So at the moment she mainly needs to downsize and find a crowd where she can make some friends, but she's also looking toward the future, knowing that she won't be independent forever and she doesn't want to live with family if she can help it.
I found some good advice on older threads here about what to consider when looking at retirement communities, but most people here seemed to be looking more at 55+ communities, not so much transitioning to assisted living.
How important is it to find a place now that will work for the next 30 years (her family tends to be long-lived)? Is that even possible? Advice welcome!