I have to admit I've always had a problem with this concept. I'm a born saver who convulses when she has to spend $$. It's not that I don't buy things that are needed, I do. I just find (found) it hard to spend money on what I consider trivial things.
But things are a changing!! Every since hubby retired last yr the money has been flying out the window. Well, not exactly, but sometimes I still find it hard to breathe. And today I finally made peace with myself and decided that it is quite okay to go ahead and spend some of it. What the heck am I saving it for anyway??
So, taking a clue from Rich in Tampa I went ahead and bought that 3 diamond ring that I've had my heart set on for sometime. I even went so far as to buy the larger of the two that I was considering.
A few days ago I took hubby to see the two rings that I was trying to decide between. I told him the practical side of me was leaning towards the smaller one while the "want to show off a little" side of me was leaning towards the 2x larger one. As usual he smiled and said "Get the one you really want". Followed by, "Sometimes ya just gotta live a little". What a guy!
Today I did something just for me. I bought the "show off a little" one (which is soooo unlike me) and I'm sitting here smiling. I can't wait until my daughter-in-law stops by later to see it. She was after me to get the nicer one. She'll be so impressed that I did something just for me AND I spent some money!!
I'm feeling good!!
But things are a changing!! Every since hubby retired last yr the money has been flying out the window. Well, not exactly, but sometimes I still find it hard to breathe. And today I finally made peace with myself and decided that it is quite okay to go ahead and spend some of it. What the heck am I saving it for anyway??
So, taking a clue from Rich in Tampa I went ahead and bought that 3 diamond ring that I've had my heart set on for sometime. I even went so far as to buy the larger of the two that I was considering.
A few days ago I took hubby to see the two rings that I was trying to decide between. I told him the practical side of me was leaning towards the smaller one while the "want to show off a little" side of me was leaning towards the 2x larger one. As usual he smiled and said "Get the one you really want". Followed by, "Sometimes ya just gotta live a little". What a guy!
Today I did something just for me. I bought the "show off a little" one (which is soooo unlike me) and I'm sitting here smiling. I can't wait until my daughter-in-law stops by later to see it. She was after me to get the nicer one. She'll be so impressed that I did something just for me AND I spent some money!!
I'm feeling good!!