I'm trying to figure out a way to make the change clear without triggering worse psych problems in her.It isn't as if I see her all the time, it's just a few times a year.
People are always moving on. It's not ghosting if it isn't a close relationship.
Flutes delivered, money repaid. Step one done.
I’ll wait a bit then send an email asking her to step away from my group, with some logical reasons not entirely related to the real problem.
Flutes delivered, money repaid. Step one done.
I’ll wait a bit then send an email asking her to step away from my group, with some logical reasons not entirely related to the real problem.
Flutes delivered, money repaid. Step one done.
I’ll wait a bit then send an email asking her to step away from my group, with some logical reasons not entirely related to the real problem.
+1Try not to take this the wrong way...but at some point, you need to start acting like an adult. The fact that this has been going on for waaaay too long is your problem.
Cut ties with this person. Stop trying to be her friend. She will eventually stop coming to whatever band practice you're both in. If she keeps showing up and you cant stand up for yourself and tell her how it is...find somewhere else to play your instrument in. Thats just how it will have to be, unless you can stick up for yourself and tell her to take a hike and that you're essentially cutting all ties.
Flutes delivered, money repaid. Step one done.
I’ll wait a bit then send an email asking her to step away from my group, with some logical reasons not entirely related to the real problem.
You don’t need to be friends with her.
Returning the money was a great idea as she didn’t hit your sons car. Only you can control your behavior.
Asking her to leave the flute group is a little extreme in my opinion. Why should she leave? If it’s uncomfortable for you why don’t you leave the group?
You don’t want to be her friend. Done. Don’t be her friend. Her behavior however inappropriate is on her, your behavior and choices are yours.
I sent an email to the adults in the group regarding a rude incident at our concert I did not witness. It turns out she was at fault for this too.
At least she recognized her bad behavior, as did others.
She sent me an email offering to resign from the group. Makes it easy for me.
Big win.
She sent me an email offering to resign from the group. Makes it easy for me.
Big win.
She has emailed me twice since I ended it. Sounds self-righteous. Time for ghosting, I think.
She has emailed me twice since I ended it. Sounds self-righteous. Time for ghosting, I think.
She has emailed me twice since I ended it. Sounds self-righteous. Time for ghosting, I think.