So I'm not making plans with it, but my Mom and Step-Dad have been great accumulators. Since there are only two of us kids on that side (both parents divorced and remarried), my brother and I may be looking at inheriting a large sum when they pass on. I know that's macabre, and certainly I want them to live long lives, but my mom had me in her 30's so there is a realistic posibility of seeing a cash infusion in my portfolio. At this point I've been urging my step-dad to retire, since they have more than enough, but he enjoys his work (college proffessor, department chair), it took him a while to get there so he wants to enjoy life at the top, so to speak. Plus he gets 4 months off a year so he feels he gets in all that he wants to do. This means their NW is going up every year, not down! Just using life expectancies, this could happen as early as my 50's.
I'm not super comfortable talking with them about it, it feels mercenary. They were better than average as parents so I don't want to seem eager for their death - that's just tacky! But I have to admit, it's crossed my mind I could inherit from them a sum greater than my entire NW to date when they pass. Part of me feels I should be able to factor in some value in this, in the sense that if I'm making a decision to retire at some point or work a few years longer to shore up the portfolio, I could let this tip the balance towards leaving early. I'm not trying to hurry them to their grave, really, but if I know my inheritance will cover the nursing home bills, it would be nice to get the campground membership a couple years earlier...thoughts?
I'm not super comfortable talking with them about it, it feels mercenary. They were better than average as parents so I don't want to seem eager for their death - that's just tacky! But I have to admit, it's crossed my mind I could inherit from them a sum greater than my entire NW to date when they pass. Part of me feels I should be able to factor in some value in this, in the sense that if I'm making a decision to retire at some point or work a few years longer to shore up the portfolio, I could let this tip the balance towards leaving early. I'm not trying to hurry them to their grave, really, but if I know my inheritance will cover the nursing home bills, it would be nice to get the campground membership a couple years earlier...thoughts?