pb4uski
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...I sense him trying to make up for my siblings' lower earning potential (and I'll say poor financial habits). I got my law school tuition paid for. My siblings got an equal amount to put towards new homes, home renovations, and cars because neither went to college....
This is one I struggle with a bit. For me and my 4 siblings, we all went education beyond high school.. some 4 year degrees and others 2 year or a year of trade school and I don't think our parents ever did any 'make-up' even though in all other respect they treated us equally including their wills.
We paid for 4 years of college for DD and she is doing well, earning almost six figures at 31 yo. DS decided not to go to college and is working in manufacturing at a barely living wage but still able to cover his modest LBYM lifestyle and save some for retirement. I have told him that like his sister, we would pay for up to four years of college for him should he ever decide that we wants more education.
If he doesn't take advantage of that offer, DW leans to using that money to help him someday with a house or newer car since he decided not to to college... I'm less sure and am somewhat of the mind that if he decides not to go then that money is our to do with what we please though I have no objection to helping him out here or there.
Since we haven't had to face the question yet, my attitude is as Ted Kennedy would say 'I'll drive off that bridge when I get to it.'