ShortInSeattle
Full time employment: Posting here.
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2012
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- 518
Hi All,
I enjoy learning from the already retired folks here, but I'm also curious to hear from those like me who are 10+ years our from ER. (In my case, it might be as much as 15 years....)
So here is a question: for those of us who are a long way off from retirement, how do you keep yourself happy/balanced/sane during the long slog? When you really value your freedom but it's not funded yet, how do you hang in there?
Here are a few things that work for me and DH:
1) this year we've been taking one 4 day weekend per month, instead of regular vacations. It took some adjustment but has turned out to be a good stress reliever to always have something "on the books" to look forward to.
2) I'm self employed, and so I've been getting more efficient with my time so I can take the occasional afternoon to work on side projects/hobbies. On these days I can pretend I am semi-retired.
3) We've started using "fitbit" pedometers to track our activity levels, and myfitnesspal to track food, to make sure we are still healthy when we ER.
4) I've started dropping all the stuff I used to do because I felt I "should." Committee meetings, etc. I say "no" more often and with less guilt.
Plus we plan and invest and talk about our future.
How about the rest of you?
SIS
I enjoy learning from the already retired folks here, but I'm also curious to hear from those like me who are 10+ years our from ER. (In my case, it might be as much as 15 years....)
So here is a question: for those of us who are a long way off from retirement, how do you keep yourself happy/balanced/sane during the long slog? When you really value your freedom but it's not funded yet, how do you hang in there?
Here are a few things that work for me and DH:
1) this year we've been taking one 4 day weekend per month, instead of regular vacations. It took some adjustment but has turned out to be a good stress reliever to always have something "on the books" to look forward to.
2) I'm self employed, and so I've been getting more efficient with my time so I can take the occasional afternoon to work on side projects/hobbies. On these days I can pretend I am semi-retired.
3) We've started using "fitbit" pedometers to track our activity levels, and myfitnesspal to track food, to make sure we are still healthy when we ER.
4) I've started dropping all the stuff I used to do because I felt I "should." Committee meetings, etc. I say "no" more often and with less guilt.
Plus we plan and invest and talk about our future.
How about the rest of you?
SIS