I have an 85 year old single female childless friend. She is still mobile and in reasonably good shape, drives, has no apparent issues with dementia, and is sensible and cooperative. She has middle class resources.
But she knows she cannot remain indefinitely in her current home, which has 3 levels, and in which she already has problems with the stairs.
She wants to think through her situation and decide on some next steps. Could anyone point me to a website which she could use to make a start on these decisions? Something like "Questions to ask"? She is capable of doing some research on the web, although not really internet-savvy. And she is an educator, so I know that would be her preference, to do *some* research on her own before talking to someone.
I know she probably needs to talk to someone ultimately, but she'd feel better armed with some research first. Even whom to talk to - she's not in a penniless situation where she needs to find a place to go immediately, she has time, but neither is she rich enough to just contact some great luxury place and tell people to "handle it."
She has family, nieces and nephews, but not nearby, and that would be one of the questions - move, or find someplace nearby, where she still has a church and a social life. (The church really doesn't have access to the informational resources she would need.)
Sorry for the length of this, but it might be educational for others of us. Here's somebody who is willing to think ahead and be sensible about her aging situation, but where to start?
But she knows she cannot remain indefinitely in her current home, which has 3 levels, and in which she already has problems with the stairs.
She wants to think through her situation and decide on some next steps. Could anyone point me to a website which she could use to make a start on these decisions? Something like "Questions to ask"? She is capable of doing some research on the web, although not really internet-savvy. And she is an educator, so I know that would be her preference, to do *some* research on her own before talking to someone.
I know she probably needs to talk to someone ultimately, but she'd feel better armed with some research first. Even whom to talk to - she's not in a penniless situation where she needs to find a place to go immediately, she has time, but neither is she rich enough to just contact some great luxury place and tell people to "handle it."
She has family, nieces and nephews, but not nearby, and that would be one of the questions - move, or find someplace nearby, where she still has a church and a social life. (The church really doesn't have access to the informational resources she would need.)
Sorry for the length of this, but it might be educational for others of us. Here's somebody who is willing to think ahead and be sensible about her aging situation, but where to start?