Brat
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The only solution is to stay out of the hospital!
If you go to the hospital the staff believes that you are there for their best efforts to send you out alive. If palliative care is appropriate use hospice and absolutely tell your family that you are not to leave your abode. Maybe tell them that your will/trust provides for their dis-inheritance it your wishes are not respected.
That doesn't do much for mom's who deliver prematurely.
If you go to the hospital the staff believes that you are there for their best efforts to send you out alive. If palliative care is appropriate use hospice and absolutely tell your family that you are not to leave your abode. Maybe tell them that your will/trust provides for their dis-inheritance it your wishes are not respected.
That doesn't do much for mom's who deliver prematurely.