Bamaman
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You've received such good advice on here. They just about covered every important subject. I've not got a pain of any kind, however my wife has been going thru surgery after surgery for recent years--including a knee replacement 2 years ago.
Pain is there for a reason, and it's a warning that something needs to be addressed. We often see "he men" with bone on bone issues but won't admit it's time to have surgery. We also see so many people wait until damage is done--and surgery just doesn't work as well. I'm just glad your husband is of normal weight. And I'm glad he's getting the surgery done.
You're fortunate to have access to a medical center as strong as Duke. They will have the latest equipment and facilities PLUS their quality of surgeons is top notch. With insurance, the very best orthopedic surgeon costs the same as a marginal surgeon. (My wife's doctor specializes in knee replacements, doing about 6 per week.)
You will want to find a great physical therapy office where you live. In the first couple of weeks, they are especially important in getting him on a good start.
My wife's been in pain management 20 years, and her biggest problem was with medications. Her pain doctor bows out when she has surgeries and turns it over to the orthopedic surgeon. The orthopedic doctor didn't properly address her pain medications, and the nerve block he gave her didn't work. Until I could get her home from 3 days in the hospital, she was absolutely miserable.
But my wife did overcome the knee surgery well, and hiked three major European cities two times last year (pre pandemic.) But then mid foot arthritis caught up with her and she had a mid foot fusion (plates & screws) 3 weeks ago. She cannot put one ounce of weight on the repaired foot and is essentially in bed for 2 months with a 1 year recuperation. The foot reconstruction is much worse surgery than the knee replacement. And then she'll have to get the other foot fused.
Good luck to your husband, as he'll come out of the replacement just fine.
Pain is there for a reason, and it's a warning that something needs to be addressed. We often see "he men" with bone on bone issues but won't admit it's time to have surgery. We also see so many people wait until damage is done--and surgery just doesn't work as well. I'm just glad your husband is of normal weight. And I'm glad he's getting the surgery done.
You're fortunate to have access to a medical center as strong as Duke. They will have the latest equipment and facilities PLUS their quality of surgeons is top notch. With insurance, the very best orthopedic surgeon costs the same as a marginal surgeon. (My wife's doctor specializes in knee replacements, doing about 6 per week.)
You will want to find a great physical therapy office where you live. In the first couple of weeks, they are especially important in getting him on a good start.
My wife's been in pain management 20 years, and her biggest problem was with medications. Her pain doctor bows out when she has surgeries and turns it over to the orthopedic surgeon. The orthopedic doctor didn't properly address her pain medications, and the nerve block he gave her didn't work. Until I could get her home from 3 days in the hospital, she was absolutely miserable.
But my wife did overcome the knee surgery well, and hiked three major European cities two times last year (pre pandemic.) But then mid foot arthritis caught up with her and she had a mid foot fusion (plates & screws) 3 weeks ago. She cannot put one ounce of weight on the repaired foot and is essentially in bed for 2 months with a 1 year recuperation. The foot reconstruction is much worse surgery than the knee replacement. And then she'll have to get the other foot fused.
Good luck to your husband, as he'll come out of the replacement just fine.